Jie Ko

It is diffcult to undersatnd the sum of people's life. Some people would tell you it measured by the one's left behind. Some believe it can be measurd in faith. Some say be love. Other folks say, life has no meaning at all.  I believe that you measure yourself, by the people who measure themself's by you.  That  by any measure, I will live more in last day on earth than most people manage to gain, out of lifetime.  I know that when I passaway, my eyes were closed and my heart was open.

The commandment number one: boundaries are the enemy of love.  If you are seeing a guy that dating is all about boundaries.  A good defense is the best offense.  You have to protect yourself.  This is not a playing game.  This is about self-presenvation.  We have all had our heart stomed on one too many times because we served it to them on a big old platter.  Sometimes you can't just throw yourself out there all exposed and vulnerable every time.  That is how you get smacked down.  Don't go looking for Mr. Right, look for Mr. Right now and eventually, if he's worthy, then one day, that "now" part is just going to drop away, naturally.

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